As many of you will know, we are currency having some work done to our house, which, apart from draining our bank account, is making me realise how little I know about construction and the ins and outs of building stuff. I’m one of those weird people who like to know how stuff works, so it really irks me when I am so embarrassingly out of the loop.
The other day, my father-in-law (who is doing the work) was on the top of the scaffolding and shouted to me to get some “long straps” out of the garage. Of course, that should be easy. I go into the garage and rummage around, but there are no straps - long or short - to be found anywhere. I searched again, after all, he seemed pretty adamant that they were in there, but to no avail, so I locked the garage and told him he must have taken them home.
“No, they are definitely in there”, he says. At which point, the Mrs (wisely) asked “What do they look like?”, to which he says, “They are about 1.5m long and silver, shaped like an L”. What?!?! In my head a strap was made out of material, something that you wrap around something else to secure it or pull it. How on earth was I supposed to know that? It reminded me of the Fork Handles skit from the Two Ronnies.
I had this immediate realisation that we can, especially in golf, go through life not really being clear on what things mean, are, or do. We have various terminologies for the same things, we have completely ambiguous terms for things that should be simple. What I am talking about might not be what you think it is. What you hear on YouTube, TikTok or Instagram might be, at best, confusing and at worst, game-ruining if you aren’t careful.
I believe that we cannot truly maximise our improvement if we aren’t crystal clear on what we are trying to do. Sure, we may get lucky once in a blue moon, but this is not a reliable strategy.
So my challenge to you this week is to reply to this email with exactly what you are currently trying to do, and how you are doing it. What goal are you trying to achieve? If there is anything which you are unclear on, uncertain about and don’t really understand, write it down and send it across. I want you to be crystal clear on what you need to do so that you can simply get on and do it, not run around in circles looking for the wrong straps, when the right ones were in front of you all along.
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