How was your weekend?
Mine was spent digging the garden, which, at the time, was a massive pain in the ass, exhausting and painful. Let’s face it, unless you’re a masochist, digging up weeds and chopping down trees is never really “fun”. This morning my back hates me, my hands and arms hate me and, truth be told, there is still a load of work to do, which is kind of depressing. But, as with a lot of experiences in life, taking a deeper look into it, there are so many relatable stories to golf. Let’s run through them…
1. If you don’t maintain a certain standard, the longer you leave it, the more effort is required to get back to where you were.
’m not going to lie, life has been busy. I’ve been doing a load of stuff lately that has been far more important to me than keeping my garden clean and tidy, however, it would also, then, be foolish of me to think that it will be an easy time getting things back to where they were. If we aren’t continually putting in time and effort to train our games, keep our skills sharp and maintain our current level of ability, we are moving backwards. Things are going to descend into chaos, and the longer we leave it, the more effort is required to pull ourselves back. What is the minimum amount of time and effort you can put into your game to make sure you are at least maintaining your level? (hint: once a month is probably not going to cut it).
2. When things are such a mess, it’s difficult to see progress from your effort.
I spent hours yesterday and barely scratched the surface (yes, as previously mentioned, it has been neglected for a while). This is the same with our golf games. We can practise and practise and feel as though we aren’t making any progress, but the progress is definitely
happening. As with the garden, it may feel as though none is being made, but it is, you just have to stick with the process and continue putting in the work. The problem we face as humans is that when we are so entrenched in something, we forget what it looked like before
we started. My partner always takes before and after pictures of the garden for this very reason. We always look back with shock - and pride - at how much we have actually accomplished. Golf is no different. Keep track of your scores in practice games. Monitor your stats. Video your swing at least once a practice. This will help you to look back objectively at your progress and not let reality get clouded by your emotions.
3.The weeds that grow the fastest are the easiest to pull out.
This may be the biggest lesson that I learned. The weeds that seemed to pop up and cover the entire universe, almost overnight, were by far the easiest to dig up. Their roots had not had a chance to grow deep and as such they were weak under the surface. Golf is the same. If we rush to try and make changes, don’t give ourselves a chance to practise and train, to put those changes under pressure, to own them before we worry about using them in competition, we will always be doomed to failure (the parable of the two men who built their houses on sand and stone is applicable here also). Give yourself a chance to internalise what you are doing. If we expect to make a change in 3 days, hitting only 100 balls, we are kidding ourselves. The work you put in will directly correlate to your long-term success, so if you aren’t doing what you need to in order to improve, you can either change your goals or change your behaviours. If I want to keep my garden in good shape moving forward, I need to add in maintenance time far more often, or I must accept that I will forever be faced with a long slog of simply getting it back to baseline.
So there you are, who knew that gardening was so similar to golf. I will say, however, if you do want to learn more about any of the ideas discussed here, or you know you need to make changes and would like help doing so, please don’t message Alan Titchmarsh - he is a great gardener, but I’m not sure he knows too much about golf coaching.
Have a great week!
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