THEY NEVER QUIT
While many of the Olympians made things look incredibly easy for the entire tournament, there were multiple “blunders” that occurred as well. You may have witnessed some, perhaps putting it down to poor preparation, collapsing under pressure, or just a very costly mistake - the truth is that even the best are only human, and while they spent 4 years preparing for their moment, there are multiple reasons why a disastrous slip or miss could take place, there won’t simply be one.
Think about your golf. There will undoubtedly have been times when you have done everything right leading up to a shot, you will have felt as though you executed that shot exactly how you wanted, and then you watch as it kicks off into the bunker, trees, water, even out of bounds. Again, there are multiple factors at play that are simply out of your control, and sometimes - once you have done a post shot or post round reflection - you just have to accept it and move on.
The thing that struck me with the Olympic athletes is that they never gave up. In the gymnastics, if they fell off the horse or slipped off the bars, they refocused and continued with their routines . They knew that they were no longer going to win, but they got back up anyway…
why? Surely it would have just made sense to call it a day and go punch the wall or drink a bottle of vodka to drown their sorrows, but they carried on, giving it their best effort the whole time. That, to me, is the most impressive attribute of the best in the world, their capacity for
failing and still continuing on with full energy and focus.
That is because it is a part of their identity. A part of who they are. They make mistakes, yes, but they don’t quit. They keep going, with full effort, until the job is done.
I have long been an advocate of focusing on the process, not the outcome. That is not to say that the outcome is important - in reality, it’s the only thing that matters - but by focusing on the steps that lead to improvement, to mastery, and ultimately, to success, we can go further than we ever thought possible.
So, the next time you have a bad start, a bad hole, a bad break, or are simply having an atrocious day out there, how will you react? Will you throw in the towel and walk in? Or will you use it as an opportunity to practise your mental fortitude, work on your process and stay in the
game. Who knows, you may find that you learn way more from that than from playing at your best…
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